Relationship Help | Recognizing and Understanding Your Emotions

Understanding Why God Gave us Feelings by Nancy Nair

Why is it important for each of us to understand feelings I ask? I think that if we really knew how things hurt us, and what feeling it was that went on inside of us, we would be better prepared to help others when they are hurting. If we don’t get to know those feelings and what each of those feelings represent in each situation how can we help each other. 

God did not just make women emotional and men emotionless, that is not how God works. God wants each of us to be able to talk to Him from the bottom of our hearts.  What does that mean I wonder? It means to me that I have a wonderful relationship with God, talking spirit to spirit with Him. So I need to understand why I feel a certain way so that nothing is between me and God. If I try to hide my feeling from God there will be an emptiness that will keep me from talking to Him like Adam did when he was in the garden with God; remember when God was walking with Adam in the garden? I am sure that they were really enjoying each other. Sometimes, when I am really in a very thoughtful time, I can have a wonderful time just letting God know what is on my heart. It makes me feel very satisfied within my spirit. I feel that God and I are walking along together (maybe not in the garden, but in my home). I can even imagine when God and Adam would be talking and Adam would say something that made God smile that each of them must have felt happy (that is a feeling). That is how I feel when I have a meaningful time with Him. God wants that from each of us today. So as I go thru my day and all the things that happen in that day, I want to look at each feeling that I experienced so that I can grow closer and closer to God.

To be able to be the best helpmeet, we must also learn why we have different feelings and put a purpose to them so that when he asks us what is wrong we can say what we are feeling. Everyone in the world each day experiences a different feeling and we want to be able to express them; therefore, when our husbands or our children say that they are going thru something we can say “I know I have felt like that also”. We will also be able to communicate to make that person feel welcome. That is what being a helpmeet is to our husbands trying to help them get those feelings back so they can walk and talk to God again because until they are communicating with God they are doing it on their own. 

We have a dictionary that has every feeling word in it. I think that as a project that each of us could go to the dictionary and add I feel in front of a word. If it is a feeling word it will explain what each of those feeling mean. Once we see that we than can ask ourselves a question. Have I ever felt like that or have I ever made someone else feel that way. That is the beginning of enjoying life when we start understanding our feelings.

God is so wonderful that He would not let us lose that ability to feel so that we can help our husbands return to Him.

♥ I feel confused ♥ I feel mortified ♥ I feel ashamed ♥ I feel affirmed ♥ I feel industrious ♥ I feel confident ♥ I feel conviction ♥ I feel astounded ♥ I feel overwhelmed ♥ I feel outraged ♥ I feel devoted ♥ I feel compassionate ♥ I feel reluctant ♥ I feel terrible ♥ I feel shocked ♥ I feel great ♥ I feel serious ♥ I feel fearful ♥ I feel embarrassed ♥ I feel clever ♥ I feel evil ♥ I feel wicked ♥ I feel immoral ♥ I feel iniquitous ♥ I feel arrant ♥ I feel corrupt ♥ I feel depraved ♥ I feel sinful ♥ I feel unacknowledged ♥ I feel abandoned ♥ I feel graceless ♥ I feel demoralized ♥ I feel encouraged ♥ I feel unwelcome ♥ I feel mischievous ♥ I feel unskillful ♥ I feel wretched ♥ I feel frustrated ♥ I feel exposed ♥ I feel empty ♥ I feel destitute ♥ I feel adorned ♥ I feel unadorned ♥ I feel unproductive ♥ I feel despicable ♥ I feel disgraceful ♥ I feel un-honored ♥ I feel honored ♥ I feel skirmish ♥ I feel radiant ♥ I feel cherished ♥ I feel supported ♥ I feel upheld ♥ I feel disagreeable ♥ I feel loved ♥ I feel dandy ♥ I feel exquisite ♥ I feel mystified ♥ I feel bewildered ♥ I feel indebted ♥ I feel bound ♥ I feel convicted ♥ I feel assurance ♥ I feel confident ♥ I feel belligerent ♥ I feel charitable ♥ I feel useful ♥ I feel wholesome ♥ I feel perplexed ♥ I feel puzzled ♥ I feel charming ♥ I feel irresistible ♥ I feel livid ♥ I feel defamed ♥ I feel censured ♥ I feel reproached ♥ I feel condemnation ♥ I feel suave ♥ I feel flattered ♥ I feel void ♥ I feel unfilled ♥ I feel expressionless ♥ I feel confounded ♥ I feel astounded ♥ I feel destroyed ♥ I feel frustrated ♥ I feel ruined ♥ I feel like exploding ♥ I feel obstreperous ♥ I feel cheerless ♥ I feel dreary ♥ I feel oblivious ♥ I feel unmindful ♥ I feel overlooked ♥ I feel happiness ♥ I feel awkward ♥ I feel daring ♥ I feel brave ♥ I feel modest ♥ I feel bashful ♥ I feel shy ♥ I feel coy ♥ I feel supportive ♥ I feel strengthened ♥ I feel stimulated ♥ I feel invigorated ♥ I feel belittled ♥ I feel depreciated ♥ I feel courageous ♥ I feel daring ♥ I feel bold ♥ I feel fearless ♥ I feel adventurous ♥ I feel dauntless ♥ I feel gallant ♥ I feel heroic ♥ I feel manly ♥ I feel unafraid ♥ I feel cowardly ♥ I feel quarrelsome ♥ I feel disorganized ♥ I feel jolly ♥ I feel fine ♥ I feel excellent ♥ I feel good ♥ I feel intimidated ♥ I feel unskillful ♥ I feel clumsy ♥ I feel cheated ♥ I feel hardened ♥ I feel agitated ♥ I feel ruffled ♥ I feel appeased ♥ I feel consoled ♥ I feel tranquil ♥ I feel composed ♥ I feel collected ♥ I feel cautious ♥ I feel prudent ♥ I feel impulsive ♥ I feel able ♥ I feel qualified ♥ I feel competent ♥ I feel proficient ♥ I feel tricked ♥ I feel upset ♥ I feel infatuated ♥ I feel enamored ♥ I feel subdued ♥ I feel discreet ♥ I feel mindful ♥ I feel observant ♥ I feel indifferent ♥ I feel heedless ♥ I feel inattentive ♥ I feel remiss ♥ I feel inconsiderate ♥ I feel neglectful ♥ I feel reckless ♥ I feel fleshly ♥ I feel unyielding ♥ I feel discarded ♥ I feel rejected ♥ I feel ensnared ♥ I feel entangled ♥ I feel overtaken ♥ I feel admonished ♥ I feel mortified ♥ I feel enslaved ♥ I feel defiant ♥ I feel accused ♥ I feel assaulted ♥ I feel disillusionment ♥ I feel disenchantment ♥ I feel tricked ♥ I feel duped ♥ I feel inspired ♥ I feel sarcastic ♥ I feel bitter ♥ I feel intense ♥ I feel fantastic ♥ I feel livid ♥ I feel depraved ♥ I feel gallant ♥ I feel dandy ♥ I feel empty ♥ I feel destroyed ♥ I feel overlooked ♥ I feel like a numskull ♥ I feel down ♥ I feel low-spirited ♥ I feel gloomy ♥ I feel dismal ♥ I feel gruff ♥ I feel frightened ♥ I feel intimidated ♥ I feel silly ♥ I feel idiotic ♥ I feel seething ♥ I feel daring ♥ I feel brave ♥ I feel immodest ♥ I feel brazen ♥ I feel shameless ♥ I feel coy ♥ I feel sportive ♥ I feel jovial ♥ I feel useless ♥ I feel weary ♥ I feel annoyed ♥ I feel courageous ♥ I feel bold ♥ I feel gallant ♥ I feel adventurous ♥ I feel venturesome ♥ I feel manly ♥ I feel unafraid ♥ I feel effective ♥ I feel cowardly ♥ I feel quarrelsome ♥ I feel strong ♥ I feel shameless ♥ I feel controlled ♥ I feel clever ♥ I feel smart ♥ I feel garish ♥ I feel radiant ♥ I feel glorious ♥ I feel accomplished ♥ I feel effective ♥ I feel lively ♥ I feel fractured ♥ I feel shattered ♥ I feel disconnected ♥ I feel impaired ♥ I feel subdued ♥ I feel contrite ♥ I feel crushed ♥ I feel violated ♥ I feel whole ♥ I feel intact ♥ I feel comfortless ♥ I feel inconsolable ♥ I feel disconsolate ♥ I feel browbeat ♥ I feel intimidated ♥ I feel unskillful ♥ I feel clumsy ♥ I feel inapt ♥ I feel disconnected ♥ I feel defrauded ♥ I feel abused ♥ I feel demolished ♥ I feel stranded ♥ I feel undone ♥ I feel apprehensive ♥ I feel honored ♥ I feel adored ♥ I feel vulnerable ♥ I feel baffled ♥ I feel miserable ♥ I feel ruined ♥ I feel tormented ♥ I feel fretful ♥ I feel troubled ♥ I feel badgered ♥ I feel good ♥ I feel desirable ♥ I feel fortunate ♥ I feel happiness ♥ I feel fatigued ♥ I feel exhausted ♥ I feel weary ♥ I feel detached ♥ I feel invalidated ♥ I feel undermined ♥ I feel feeble ♥ I feel fragile ♥ I feel unprotected ♥ I feel fallible ♥ I feel hesitant ♥ I feel guarded ♥ I feel rejected ♥ I feel unproductive ♥ I feel worthless ♥ I fell devastated ♥ I feel unnecessary ♥ I feel justifiable ♥ I feel admonished ♥ I feel passionate ♥ I feel lukewarm ♥ I feel hostile ♥ I feel passionate ♥ I feel outraged ♥ I feel revengeful ♥ I feel depraved ♥ I feel vicious ♥ I feel shameless ♥ I feel worthless ♥ I feel mean ♥ I feel despicable ♥ I feel contemptible ♥ I feel miserable ♥ I feel wretched ♥ I feel watchful ♥ I feel attentive ♥ I feel impressed ♥ I feel triumphant ♥ I feel successful ♥ I feel imperfect ♥ I feel irritated ♥ I feel anxious ♥ I feel mortified ♥ I feel lifeless ♥ I feel empty ♥ I feel obsolete ♥ I feel gullible ♥ I feel ignored ♥ I feel disregarded♥ I feel unqualified

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